It Doesn't Matter.....
ya true, it really doesn't matter, the way people take us, the way they perceive us to be.
Ahhh.. we are changing constantly... then how can others judge/analyse?
Is there any parameter for this?
As my friend megha rightly says " Change is the only thing that's constant"...nothing else in this entire world is constant. [even H1N1 virus is mutating so fast what to say about humans ;) :P ]
I am not be the same as i was 1 hour ago or one day or a month back .[ohh! this made me realize my gained cellulite ;) :P ]
Analyzing handwritings do make be happy but all such stuffs : graphology, body language, face reading are really futile. Analysts don't tell anything peculiar. Moreover, analyzing a person within some stipulated time period is entirely out of the scene. We all know about ourselves quite well [ we are the best analyzers of ourselves] Then why the curiosity to fetch data from others?
Spending some quality time with oneself can really open many hidden facets of our lives. Just needed is bit time, space, freedom, awareness. :)
"sitting silently, doing nothing, spring comes and the grass grow by itself"
After self confrontation comes self acceptance... d key to bliss and serenity. Accepting ourselves as we are...ya even if we seems to be weird to others [accepted my idiosyncrasy...it adds to uniqueness only ;) :P]
everybody is unique, incomparable, equally important. hmm...i might not be good at poetry or cooking [half burned hard cake type ...so called Dhokla still on my desk since two days... ;) actually trying 2 develop taste for it :P]
Anyways, i will be surely good at other things..need to explore my hidden qualities [Confession: trying to find one since long, haven't got till yet...but ya the hunt is still on ;) spirits high!!!]
And regarding Past things ......No regrets!!! give a damn to it...whatever happened...has happened... it cannot be modified. That time has gone, that place has gone and Life has moved on [ ahhh! finally some sparks of poetry shooting out ;) ] Regrets only leads to non self acceptance.Then why regret ? Awareness is enough. :D
Learning from other's experiences can't also be of much help. As the person, place, time everything is entirely different now. Moreover, such experiences are outcomes of various fears, apprehensions, ambitions and taboos which all jeopardize our own purity and freedom.
everyone's journey is unique...no one can be in anybody else shoes...so better to travel with our own lights and awareness...
PS: it all doesn't matter...celebrate your life as you want....give a damn to others( included me) ;)
shikha....
