Breaking the Mind Barriers…..Ecstasy our own nature… 

Breaking the mind barriers…..Ecstasy our own nature… :)

1. Do am I really abandoned by people or its just my mind…again playing tricks… [nagging me as usual ;)]
2. Am I really good for nothing? Am I so vulnerable?
3. Is there any way to bear with myself as the way I am [ especially my weight :P ]
4. Do I always have to be guilty about one thing or the other.. [ am always on a guilt ride….rollercoaster ride ;) … why I got up so late……why I eat so much chocolates and high fat stuff although yummy ;) :P … why I don’t complete my assignment on time …]
5. How to know about the small difference between ego and self respect…Am I been egoistic or just protecting my self respect?
6. This is right and that is wrong…. [ Is there really any parameter to know what is right and what is wrong? ]
7. Do I always have to be damn serious in life to achieve my goals or excel at work? Liveliness won’t do?
8. Why can’t I accept myself the way I am?
9. Do I really need to compare myself to others?
10. Why can't people stop poking their noses in others work?
11. Why I have to rely on others to analyze me… Don’t I know myself much better?
12. Why I am moody? Can’t I be just happy…why I have to be sad even for a while when the whole existence/nature around me is in continuous celebration?

Our mind is such an insidious thing.. it makes various pseudo barriers which don’t ever exist in reality… they are just like mirage......

Playfulness, liveliness, vividness, happiness, bliss, ecstasy are the innermost core of our lives. :)

No one can be sad…and no one can make us sad…happiness comes from within… :D

Our remote controls are in our hands only and not in the hands of people surrounding us… Take things easy, life is too short to take it seriously [now, why the hell you are taking this crap blog so seriously? ;) :P ] … Just live to the fullest… :)

Live in the present, give a damn to others and our own mind and always be happy!

So, buddy! The next time whenever you come across a person who says he is very sad, depressed, heart broken…blah blah blah… just kick right across his butt quite hard.. ;) :P

Such people don’t need any consolation or sympathy but a good thrashing… :D

Tell them they and only they are responsible for whatever comes…either accept or have the guts to change the situation…its their will. Every person’s natural proclivity is towards bliss only… :) there is no reason to be unhappy…

Going along with the crowd won’t help one to stand out of the crowd…..

Sometimes BEING YOURSELF is the hardest thing to do…

Going along with the crowd may be easy, convenient although…

But being an Individual is more of true self…

Just break those bogus mind barriers…and sparkle with joy… :)

Don’t ever make your choices based on the crowd…

Make your own choice on…

your feelings….your values….and your needs…

Think and act positive… Be happy… Enjoy… Be ecstatic…:)

PS: To ignore mind …may not be a feasible idea… but we can atleast become more of heart and less of mind…now how to know… its by heart or by mind? . everything done with totality is by heart…and anything done partially is by mind… now, its our wish which one to follow!

Cheers! :) :)

shikha

IT DOESN'T MATTER

It Doesn't Matter.....

ya true, it really doesn't matter, the way people take us, the way they perceive us to be.

Ahhh.. we are changing constantly... then how can others judge/analyse?

Is there any parameter for this?

As my friend megha rightly says " Change is the only thing that's constant"...nothing else in this entire world is constant. [even H1N1 virus is mutating so fast what to say about humans ;) :P ]

I am not be the same as i was 1 hour ago or one day or a month back .[ohh! this made me realize my gained cellulite ;) :P ]

Analyzing handwritings do make be happy but all such stuffs : graphology, body language, face reading are really futile. Analysts don't tell anything peculiar. Moreover, analyzing a person within some stipulated time period is entirely out of the scene. We all know about ourselves quite well [ we are the best analyzers of ourselves] Then why the curiosity to fetch data from others?

Spending some quality time with oneself can really open many hidden facets of our lives. Just needed is bit time, space, freedom, awareness. :)

"sitting silently, doing nothing, spring comes and the grass grow by itself"

After self confrontation comes self acceptance... d key to bliss and serenity. Accepting ourselves as we are...ya even if we seems to be weird to others [accepted my idiosyncrasy...it adds to uniqueness only ;) :P]

everybody is unique, incomparable, equally important. hmm...i might not be good at poetry or cooking [half burned hard cake type ...so called Dhokla still on my desk since two days... ;) actually trying 2 develop taste for it :P]

Anyways, i will be surely good at other things..need to explore my hidden qualities [Confession: trying to find one since long, haven't got till yet...but ya the hunt is still on ;) spirits high!!!]

And regarding Past things ......No regrets!!! give a damn to it...whatever happened...has happened... it cannot be modified. That time has gone, that place has gone and Life has moved on [ ahhh! finally some sparks of poetry shooting out ;) ] Regrets only leads to non self acceptance.Then why regret ? Awareness is enough. :D

Learning from other's experiences can't also be of much help. As the person, place, time everything is entirely different now. Moreover, such experiences are outcomes of various fears, apprehensions, ambitions and taboos which all jeopardize our own purity and freedom.

everyone's journey is unique...no one can be in anybody else shoes...so better to travel with our own lights and awareness...

PS: it all doesn't matter...celebrate your life as you want....give a damn to others( included me) ;)

shikha....

Just Started.....

Ahh!!! am finally writing a blog. Really don't know exactly from where to start from.

Actually there are innumerable things... :D.

Our life is such a complex mystery...Although fascinating....ya weird at times... :P ;) and completely frustrating at other times :D... But u know its really worth it...

All these flowers,trees,birds,sky,sunrise,stars all are so colorful and charming...

so full of life :) (although i rarely spend much time appreciating all this :P)...

hmmm... Life moves quite fast...sometimes it even doesn't give us much time to breath even...{ahh am breathless ;)}

its like we are always in a hurry to catch some random super fast trains...not even knowing where it will lead to and the irony is that in all this paced (f**d) up life we completely tend to forget this....

Present Moment..that is HereNow!

one thing i have really learned from life is that it never stops...everything good or bad[watch out...even the good too ;)] passes by...Damn..it doesn't even wait for me to meditate over somethings...hmmm... some really nice moments ;) :P

Anyways its Life.....its good it keeps on going... n we r going along with it too...although sometimes yelling..laughing...crying....enjoying... ;)

So guys, Life is a fast track, Keep walking, Keep Rocking!!!!! :)
shikha...